Since I see that nobody has such a list, I started to create my own. This is what I gathered so far:
http://www.lozolinks.nl/
http://www.uniekbegin.nl/
http://www.sat-benelux.nl/
http://www.linkspagina.eu/
http://www.digitalweb.be/nl/
http://www.dirextory.com/
http://www.sat-benelux.nl/links/
http://www.oblivite.com/
http://landen.ervaren.be/index.php?c=2
http://www.linkpush.net/
http://www.cfaf.org/
http://www.primalink.nl/submit.php
http://www.angelinks.nl/
http://www.uniekbegin.nl/
http://www.originalpages.com/
http://usadir.com
http://www.halifaxdirectory.net/
http://www.angelinks.nl/
http://www.xmasmags.com/
http://www.website-promoten.eu/
http://www.gskemp.com/
http://www.hellodirectory.net
http://www.directorysubmitlink.info/
http://www.findste.com/
http://www.turkijelinks.nl
http://www.westiehotlinks.nl/
http://www.hiervindjealles.nl
http://holland-gids.eu/
http://www.bestelonline.nl/
http://www.iwebber.nl
http://www.aanbiedingen-plaza.nl

All of them are hosted in NL, free directories, with or without obligatory reciprocal link.
Any additions are of course very welcome.