Many folks know the importance of first date, whether it is online or offline. When meeting someone on an online dating site it matters how you talk, how you speak, your pictures, all related to a first encounter. But what if you manage to do well for the online impression and head for a traditional first time dating with a woman ? If you do not pass the three major tests it does not matter what perfume you have used, what clothes you wore and so on. If you want to win a second date, pay attention to these very important details :

She offers to pay

This is the most common trick a woman will apply. Usually, women insist to pay half, but do not fall for this ! Even if she feels it would be rude to let you pay, this is still a test that you must pass. Do not let her pay, especially if you invited her out. Worst case scenario : if she is very pushy, make a funny remark like « let me pay this time, next date it’s on you ».

She expresses her dissatisfaction with…

With drink, with the food, with the waiter, with almost everything, only for seeing how you react. It is very important how you deal with this situation. If she says something nasty about the food talk to someone from the staff (without scandal) and explain the problem. She will be happy that you solved the issue and that you react well when she has an attitude problem.

Manners

This is the last test, but be sure she will have an eye on you to see if you lack the manners or not. Bring her a flower on the first date, open the door when she wants to enter the restaurant or a taxi. Show her you are an educated man.

However, be careful not to go on the other side and spoil her too much. Be as natural as you can be, show her you are a true gentleman and a man she could rely on.